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mooby
Brisbane, Queensland
5367 posts

The princess missus and i are having a discussion. we just got my old man (60+ and retired) to service my car. got him to put in a good k&n filter and good synth oil etc.

im 30 and a professional. if this was you, would you expect to pay for the parts? and possible chuck in a slab? click the link below to fill in your result. ta.

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/22PCSD7
08:24pm 22/03/10 Permalink
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TicMan
Melbourne, Victoria
5728 posts
Parts + slab .. it's the least you can do.
08:25pm 22/03/10 Permalink
fpot
Gold Coast, Queensland
17358 posts
Use his old age against him by deceiving him into thinking that whilst servicing your car he did some damage to it. Charge him money to repair said damage.

... this was a 'qgl' survey right?
08:26pm 22/03/10 Permalink
mooby
Brisbane, Queensland
5369 posts
^true
08:28pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Damo
Brisbane, Queensland
4476 posts
Get him a slab/bottle of something good.
08:28pm 22/03/10 Permalink
iWhoop
Brisbane, Queensland
15764 posts
So you want your dad to pay for the parts and service your car? You f***en cheap skate. Of course you should pay for the parts and you should also buy your dad dinner or have a BBQ in his honor.
08:28pm 22/03/10 Permalink
lewd
Brisbane, Queensland
752 posts
^ +1

my mate services and fixes my car.
i hook him up big time..........
08:35pm 22/03/10 Permalink
eightyeight
Brisbane, Queensland
1356 posts
what the eff dude... ive serviced heaps of friends and family's cars and they always pay for the parts and i just chuck in a small fee for doing the work or just get them to do something for me in return.
08:36pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Spook
Brisbane, Queensland
28457 posts
i hook him up big time..........

as much free busking as he can handle?
08:37pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Scooter
Brisbane, Queensland
2665 posts
My dad doesn't drink alcohol, but If I did it, in some make-believe future, it would be nice to receive a slab for my time.

Shouldn't even conceder not paying for/buying the parts, that's stupid. He's helping you and going out of pocket to do it...
08:44pm 22/03/10 Permalink
paveway
Brisbane, Queensland
11725 posts
if it was me, i wouldn't be so f*****g useless and do my own oil and air filter
08:46pm 22/03/10 Permalink
mooby
Brisbane, Queensland
5370 posts
So you want your dad to pay for the parts and service your car? You f***en cheap skate

hey, its not me. ill forward this on for sure tho.
08:49pm 22/03/10 Permalink
acetame
Brisbane, Queensland
1832 posts
get your wallet out you cheap prick
08:52pm 22/03/10 Permalink
thermite
Brisbane, Queensland
4505 posts
When my old man gets to service my car he gives ME beer. And petrol, no s***.
08:54pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Thundercracker
Brisbane, Queensland
2386 posts
voted, awaiting results
08:54pm 22/03/10 Permalink
mooby
Brisbane, Queensland
5371 posts
get your wallet out you cheap prick


as said before, its not f*****g me. having a disbute with the missus. she goes "non of your other friends dads would make them pay"

so i do a survey
08:56pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Scooter
Brisbane, Queensland
2666 posts
Let her know that I would give her a service for free.

Servicing the car is going to cost though.
08:59pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Triamks
Brisbane, Queensland
2875 posts
I speak on behalf of QGL. We're touched you consider us friends mooby.
09:00pm 22/03/10 Permalink
euphoria
Gold Coast, Queensland
1635 posts
she goes "non of your other friends dads would make them pay"
true. my dad (and this is probably true for many of us) wouldn't make me pay (or even ask for payment) cause he's such a champ. But I'd insist on paying, because what sort of tight arse takes advantage of his dad like that?
09:04pm 22/03/10 Permalink
mooby
Brisbane, Queensland
5372 posts
Let her know that I would give her a service for free.

I actually had a lol. 80% say yes with a slab. 6% no. rest yes.
09:06pm 22/03/10 Permalink
acetame
Brisbane, Queensland
1833 posts
Are you a man ? you are actually having this discussion with your wife?

for starters your wife should not be involved in any discussion car related... tell her to stand down immediately



09:14pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Bah
Brisbane, Queensland
3627 posts
If your old man serviced your car, would you expect to pay for the parts?
I accidentally the survey.
09:17pm 22/03/10 Permalink
shad
Brisbane, Queensland
3036 posts
I'd say just pay for parts. Drain oil, chuck on air filter while the sump is emptying and then refil should take less than 15 minutes.

Also I left a bottle of Scotch at my parents and he drank it all so he owes me IMO.
09:17pm 22/03/10 Permalink
trog
AGN Admin
Brisbane, Queensland
29893 posts
edit subject to make it more useful
09:29pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Mantra
Crusty old man
Brisbane, Queensland
2665 posts
as said before, its not f*****g me. having a disbute with the missus. she goes "non of your other friends dads would make them pay"
I've had the same problem with my wife, she couldn't understand why I would want to give my brother a slab to borrow his mates van to have me and him help her mother move a fridge. Every male in the vicinity looked at her like she had 3 heads.

edit:

And! She said "well, if I'd known it was going to cost a carton of beer I wouldn't have done it".

Which essentially means... "My mother could leave the fridge where she bought it." or "I would prefer to hire a ute and give some stranger more money than give my brother-in-law some beer."

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koopz
Brisbane, Queensland
8695 posts
he's your Dad dude..

you're a man now - send Mom and Dad on a nice holiday

it doesn't have to be expensive - hire him a houseboat for a week to do some fishing on the Tweed or something.

Pick something he never made the time for that ya know he'd like, then talk your Mom into why it's a great idea for him to go do it with his mates ;)
09:44pm 22/03/10 Permalink
HeardY
Gaelic newb
Sydney, New South Wales
17519 posts
haha mantrap
09:52pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Pinky
Melbourne, Victoria
5093 posts
The f*** koopz? Are you made of money. He said he was a professional, he didn't say he had no responsibilities so how should he best shower gifts on the old chap!

Pay for the parts. If he doesn't except money then buy him a nice bottle of plonk or what have you.
09:59pm 22/03/10 Permalink
taggs
Brisbane, Queensland
3795 posts
parts + gift or nominal fee. anything else gtfo.
10:03pm 22/03/10 Permalink
evıs
Brisbane, Queensland
6252 posts
"Service" did he just change the oil and air filter?
10:04pm 22/03/10 Permalink
scooby
Brisbane, Queensland
3877 posts
get under it and change the oil yourself ya noob!
10:07pm 22/03/10 Permalink
orbitor
Brisbane, Queensland
8266 posts
of course you would pay for parts, and while not necessarily give a slab, damn well show your appreciation!
10:43pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Murderer
Tasmania
1402 posts
iWhoop got it 100% right.

edit: unless you are in financial difficulties and the old man has done it to help you out and save you money.. (and you both know it etc)!
11:05pm 22/03/10 Permalink
hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
6950 posts
i say parts and slab/some other good gesture of appreciation
mrs hardware agrees, of course
11:10pm 22/03/10 Permalink
Dodgymon
Brisbane, Queensland
1525 posts
Just had a similar thing happen to me where I got this retired mechanic to swap out a motor for me.
He asked for $250 however considering he basically just saved me a few grand I gave him $400.

Same deal my mrs couldn't understand why but it I took it to a shop to get done it woulda cost me $4k.
This guy did it for $250 labour and the recon'd motor was $700.

Women are just noobs when it comes to cars.
12:50am 23/03/10 Permalink
Mantra
Crusty old man
Brisbane, Queensland
2668 posts
Those beer economy ads aren't entirely inaccurate...

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skythra
Brisbane, Queensland
2023 posts
I just charged my brother 50 dollars and the cost of supplies to service his vehicle. The very LEAST you can do is give him a slab.

Why?


Because once you service someone's car, anything that goes wrong before they service it again is apparently your fault.

No f*** that.

He asked for $250 however considering he basically just saved me a few grand I gave him $400.
Uh. what?
No matter how good he is, he's losing more money than time in doing that. It takes 8 hours to swap a perfect engine for a broken one. I think you should be sucking him off considering he will take the blame when you have a complaint.
06:21am 23/03/10 Permalink
Fish
Brisbane, Queensland
2773 posts
Personally I'd pay for parts, and then add something extra for his time (be it cash, dinner, alcohol). But then my dad can't maintain a care, let alone fix it... he's had to perform an overhaul on 2 new cars (well, more precisely, he had to pay for the 2 overhauls... someone else performed it).
09:47am 23/03/10 Permalink
Mephz
Brisbane, Queensland
337 posts
How could you not pay for parts?!

In fact, if he's retired and at his age, I would take a blunt stab in the dark as to say it's unlikely he's loaded with a big superannuation nest-egg given the lack of existence (or mandatory need to pay in to) superannuation in his prime working years...

So, why the hell would you ask anybody who's just making ends meet pay your bills, let alone your own father or father in-law? That's disgusting morals and ethics.

Sounds like "the missus" is a real winner =/

If your father is rolling in money and has millions of dollars and your struggling, I would expect its a non-issue. But this doesn't sound the case.

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hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
6952 posts
and this is why i found a woman that 'thinks right'
the vast majority of women fail at critical thinking and logic
i have 0 time for them
10:20am 23/03/10 Permalink
greazy
Brisbane, Queensland
3147 posts
and this is why i found a woman that 'thinks right'
the vast majority of women fail at critical thinking and logic
i have 0 time for them

"i was a virgin till i met my wife"
01:43pm 23/03/10 Permalink
hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
6955 posts
looks like you fail at logic too greazy
01:47pm 23/03/10 Permalink
tequila
Brisbane, Queensland
6354 posts
good k&n air filter can run $50-$100, good oil will be $50~

so $100 + a carton of beer wouldn't be out of the question imo
next time, DIY
01:47pm 23/03/10 Permalink
hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
6957 posts
he didn't say air filter teq
K&N make oil filters too, also now with spanner-nut on the bottom for ease of removal
01:52pm 23/03/10 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
5543 posts
Of course you do parts + token gesture gift / favour in return.

I've had my in-laws sneak in freebies like a car battery last year because the business was a bit up and down. They may have even paid for the boy's tuition for a term as I can't seem to work out where that money came from, wifey reckons it was some of the child rebate / tax benefit stuff but I am unsure.

I am really awkward and rage about it so have been pimping their computers etc.
01:53pm 23/03/10 Permalink
tequila
Brisbane, Queensland
6355 posts
every time i pickup my son from grandmas house (she looks after him 2 days per week) he always comes back with a shipload of new toys and clothes etc
she loves to spoil him

but thats what family is for
01:56pm 23/03/10 Permalink
Dazhel
Gold Coast, Queensland
1137 posts
"i was a virgin till i met my wife"


...and now you're really f***ed?
02:01pm 23/03/10 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
5545 posts
but thats what family is for
Yeh I don't mind that sort of stuff, but I get all injured-alpha-male-provider about actual expenses like tuition, which is probably why nobody has fessed up ><
02:02pm 23/03/10 Permalink
HerbalLizard
Queenstown, New Zealand
4020 posts
Have your misses service your old man, maybe needs to clean the lines out
02:10pm 23/03/10 Permalink
hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
6958 posts
^WUT
02:13pm 23/03/10 Permalink
HerbalLizard
Queenstown, New Zealand
4022 posts
sarcasm detection filter broken hardware?
02:16pm 23/03/10 Permalink
hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
6959 posts
no, but even for sarcasm it's a bit crass
02:18pm 23/03/10 Permalink
HerbalLizard
Queenstown, New Zealand
4024 posts
Also pay for parts and give him a slab and maybe a nice dinner at your place to show some appreciation.
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