I am having a really hard time with this, every time i go to create my own page or one for someone else, I always get stuck at the color scheme and it always ends up looking terrible regardless of how nice the other aspects are. Help

Sifn't use a schemer. There are billions on the web.

http://www.colorschemer.com/schemes/search.php?s=red&start=10

http://kuler.adobe.com/ will solve all your colour scheme problems.

nothing will fix your lack of creativity and/or intuition however.