pretty much impossible without unplugging the router's wan port imo
even if you cna block all the ports, it tunnels through http, and if you can stop that, the users will just use a webbased client, so you'll have to block all of them too
request from friend to stop daughter from using it (grounded or something). Computer nub so i doubt she would use meebo and the like. Thought i could just admin the router remotely but it looks like i'll have to go over there and just break the msn proxy settings or something. Im lazy but that would probably be easier than trying to fight it off from the router. Thanks for the inputs