We have been living together for nearly a year and living with each other but she has not stopped playing these stupid little games. She starts arguments over nothing trying to create big drama's just to push me away for me to hopefully chase her back. I'm not that type of guy, I feel like I should end it but its not going to be easy since I'm all she really has, she comes from a shit home and her parents are separated and live far from here. I'm afraid that if I do let her go she will do something stupid hoping for me to rescue her or something.


Edit: sorry for wasting some peoples time, just want to get someone elses opinion on it.

Cut and Run.
If she does something stupid, send in Ambo/Police to rescue her.

Paging Vash...

Whats the Sex like ?
Many people make the mistake that great Sex excuses intolerable behaviour.

Usually behaviour like you claim is the result of an underlying problem that is not being addressed.

I'm all she really has

So you are the one with all the power in the Relationship ?
Perhaps this is the problem.

fok htat bithc mann

Cut and Run.If the does something stupid, send in Ambo/Police to rescue her.

Agreed. Think long term bro, you wanna be stuck with crazy for ever? Therapy is all well and good but its expensive and wont necessarily change what you want changed. Just be sure that what you are complaining about really is the truth (severity, time its been happening etc). Its too easy to focus on the negatives and exaggerate them when a relationship is going through tough times.

Agreed. Think long term bro, you wanna be stuck with crazy for ever? Therapy is all well and good but its expensive and wont necessarily change what you want changed. Just be sure that what you are complaining about really is the truth (severity, time its been happening etc). Its too easy to focus on the negatives and exaggerate them when a relationship is going through tough times.

You are right, but this has happened a couple times,

The one before probably being when she had something to tell me and she said she would tell me at night when we where in bed. Got to the time and she could not remember.... then she still didn't want to tell me, like she wanted me to pry it out of her and it worked for a bit until I said fine and started ignoring her then she stormed out of the house and went wandering. It's like I'm not going to keep going through this bullshit. She wants to play games and get chased. But I'm not a 16 year old boy. If they run then fuck them.

Straight up ? never discuss your relationship with your partners friends.

A chick that plays games ?
wtf ? ur winning dude.

Then their was a short small argument but I kept ignoring her instead of turning that argument into something big

but what is the big thing ?
Thats what you need to identify.
Maybe it has nothing to do with you, it could be something from her past that sits in the background eating at her all the time.


This is where i find Scientology interesting.
They believe that past incidents control you and by "auditing" the causal event you remove its power over you.

This is where i find Scientology interesting.
They believe that past incidents control you and by "auditing" the causal event you remove its power over you.

Psychologists use something called EMDR. It is widely recognised and doesn't require you to be brainwashed and have all your money taken.

Then don't, see what happens life goes on.

Fuckers get to wound up about relationships. A good relationship is easy street.

Stop playing games Gabby!

1. if she's asian consult with Vash
2. marry her
3. post marital issues here
4. are you door?

Well Friday afternoon I got home from work to her and her two friends I drove up from ILUKA, They came up for the week to hangout with her and she was telling me we had to drop them home tonight. I said ok thinking they agreed to it aswell, Then she wanted me to stay the night so she could get a sims 3 pets game in Iluka cause the EB Games store here ran out. I said I'm not saying in iluka over night for you to get a game. Then their was a short small argument but I kept ignoring her instead of turning that argument into something big, any ways it ended with her saying she wasn't going to come for the 9 hour drive.

During the drive down her friends where telling me how rude she was being to them the whole time she was up and how she didnt want to do anything. I also received a text saying she was going to leave and she was hitch-hiking to Brisbane from Warwick... (Fucking idiot.) I just ignored her got home and she was still in bed. Then she demands and answer from me saying IF I want to be in the relation ship. I think she has lost the plot sometimes.

So you drove for 9 hours to collect her two friends then 9 hours back to drop them off and she didn't even come with you?

^ This and wtf!? 18 hour drive for a bitch your having these sort of troubles with? You have your own problems you may need counseling for...

Seriously, not a single god damn dragon, ninja or picture of tits...WTF...I don't want to come on here and read about some submissive's girlfriends sandy vag issues causing life aggro.

Think about it. If she was just your friend, you sure as hell would not be hanging out with her much. Just because you're in a "relationship" you're stuck with her? No way, not how it works. Break up with her and escape, you sound in pain.

Well she keeps playing games and it is QGL.

Girls rock!

She starts arguments over nothing trying to create big drama's

calmly point out what she's doing, then walk away. she'll either wake up to herself or come at you with a knife because you're "so fucking calm".

is this a troll account or something?

first post relationship advice...

does this look like a relationship counciling forum ?

Exactly what I thought...

You should have at least waited a few months before re-regging this time, Door.

he's also registered as 'mental patients' to confuse us. might be the most apt alias yet!

yeah, if you're still having sex with her, i'd make damn sure to provide your own (not tampered with) condoms, this is ripe for an 'accidental' missing of the pill or whatever and pregnancy

i'm with the others, get the fuck outlast edited by funky at 12:41:19 08/Jul/12

I have had that problem with other relationships where I would check their PILL packet in the bedside draw and sometimes fined the different number of tablets then their should be and just wore a condom saying Just to be sure,

I asked her to get and Implant in her arm at the start of the relation ship so she couldn't pull any of that crap on me. I think all guys should take that approach if the girl isn't obviously planning on popping out a kid in the next 3 years .

The Internet is great for getting a wide range of opinions on something.
Strangers are likely to be more open/honest with you than people you know.

Many ppl would rather quit a relationship than put in hard work to resolve it.
Relationships are a skill like any other skill.
If you keep running out when the going gets tough you will end up being a very poor partner who will be unlikely to 'snare a good catch.'

Thanks for the defence Faceman,

I can't ask my parents for any assistance here cause knowing them they'll try and get involved and just cause more crap, And since I have moved up to Warwick from the red lands I haven't talked much with my old mates and I think it be a bit odd bringing my situation up to them randomly.

Dude GTFO hey... from experience, i spent ages with a GF like that and the day i got rid of her and realized it's not my responsibility was one of the best days of my life. Let her do what ever she has to do man, cut herself, sleep around, whatevs man, gl hf fuck off. It aint your problem man, everyone has their own problems, she can keep hers.

Serious, there are many more fish in the sea dude, many more with WAY less issues. Ur in danger of being locked into a shit relationship with an "accidental" kid here and you DO NOT want that!!

Run dude, don't look back, don't feel bad.... just RUN, and FAST...

KGO

Dude GTFO hey... from experience, i spent ages with a GF like that and the day i got rid of her and realized it's not my responsibility was one of the best days of my life. Let her do what ever she has to do man, cut herself, sleep around, whatevs man, gl hf fuck off. It aint your problem man, everyone has their own problems, she can keep hers.Serious, there are many more fish in the sea dude, many more with WAY less issues. Ur in danger of being locked into a shit relationship with an "accidental" kid here and you DO NOT want that!!Run dude, don't look back, don't feel bad.... just RUN, and FAST...KGO

You are right man, I need to break it off.

but this is probably the most serious relationship i have been in so far, so im finding it difficult to end. I cant cope with the stress and pressure she puts on me works hard enough.

and the mentalpatient posting seems like just a poor imitation of the real thing to me

I can't recall any occasion when mental patient called someone a "cnut", so you are probably right. Just a "focken cmaper".

Also usually mental patient's posts were way longer.

I think I'm going to really like this community. haha

What type of pussy are you? If my *wife* asked me to drive for 9 hours to pick her friends up, the most I'd do is show her the easiest way using Google Maps then point her at the car.

Unless of course the two friends were hotties and we're about to do an MFFF - I still wouldn't drive for 9 hours, I'd arrange a flight or something.

Don't worry it's just some weirdo who reregs and posts on here all the time. I am pretty sure you're not him. Just your incredibly odd first post smacked of something he would do. Carry on.

and what's reregs?

prolly not a good idea to name yourself on here, least not your full name.
There is some *strange* people that pop up.

Like you, for example?

Well Whoop, the only reason why I think its a good Idea for guys to recommend it is not because I don't want to take responsibility I just want to make sure pregnancy never happens. It's been labelled as one of the best products you can get. I would call myself a moron if I let the girl have full control on what she was doing for birth control. I take other measures as well, but the implant is something I would recommend to girls who are not looking to have a kid in the next 2-3 years.

So it's implant or GTFO? I'm starting to think your girlfriend might actually be the sane one. This makes you sound like the biggest asshole on the planet. If it was a girl telling another girl how awesome it was and how well it worked I could understand. But a guy, telling a girl what to do with HER body? What? Fuck off.

I didn't force her to get the Implant, I heard about it and asked her if that's the way she wanted to go and she researched it and looked it up herself. I wouldn't force it of course, if she did not want to have it implanted I would gone down a different Path. I just reccomend it as its probably one of the safest methods of birth control if their was one for a man I would treat the two equally. you shouldn't jump the gun.

Implants are great for cumsluts, but I would not be suggesting anyone I actually cared about and possibly wanted to have children with to get one.

Implants, meh. Just provide your own condoms and use em right. What are they? 97% effective? That 3% isnt gunna be an issue given all the barriers in place preventing conception. And if you cant trust her while she is on the pill either wear condoms or dont be with her.

Ive skimmed through the posts since and as people have said, you seem to have your mind made up but keep making excuses. Drop the weight, move on. Better now than later when you have kids or have been together longer and have more shared property.

Cut and Run.If the does something stupid, send in Ambo/Police to rescue her.


already over this thread, psycho bitch, weak guy who won't leave her... cool story.



+1

Flip her over and nail her in the poop chute. That will tell her who's boss.

Walk the fuck away now. Why anyone is dumb enough to put up with this shit I will never know.

My future goal is to open a mac reseller store in Warwick over the next year or two.

problem solved right there. force her to leave you!

Dude also, if you do break it off... DO NOT GO BACK for the break up sex... big mistake and the whole lot of crazy will start all over again

Has to be a troll thread. Noone can be this stupid, even on Ausgamers/QGL.

shit makes guys do crazy pussy...

fixed

I can't believe you actually do the shit you've mentioned, let alone put up with her crazy, sounds like you're the crazy one dude.

Bail immediately and never look back, looks like you won't do that though, so good luck with the marriage+kids+horrible life!

I'm assuming you're 20-25, so two points:

1. We all think we're mature when we are 20, but realistically most of us aren't. Live-in relationships are both hard work and require a lot of learning and communication. Not everyone is willing or able to do that in their early twenties.
2. In my admittedly limited experience, relationships tend to get "framed" early on in terms of how the dynamics between the two of you will work. It sounds like yours has been framed in a bad way, through no fault of either of yours. When you're still a relationship noob you dont really know what to watch out for / how to ensure you establish a dynamic that will work for you - but that dynamic once established can be awfully hard to change.

As others have alluded to, at this point the simplest question to ask yourself is if you can see yourself marrying this woman in a few years time. If the answer is no, then now is the right time to pull the plug. Breakups are hard - despite common belief I think equally hard on both parties regardless of who is instigates it - but doing the right thing in a relationship is rarely easy.

The other thing to consider is your partner's behaviour may simply be evidence that she wants out, and simply doesn't realise it herself yet. I think many people start acting up / pushing the boundaries of acceptable behaviour once they start to lose the desire they once had for the relationship.

Why was my post nuked? it says off topic but I was asking for pics of the girl in question so it's not really off topic then is it.

dont even get me started on random nukings

If you're not happy you should move on. You only live once.

Fuck this mental patients makes me lol with each post. Cant understand all of it though.

mental patient is the dickie knee of this forum.. he should be allowed to post

u say its a serious relationship yet you come sort out your problems on a public forum.. hahahahahaha

heres an idea.. talk to her about it.. since your relationship is so mature...

idiot

Wait, she has an implant? Hahaha. Dude you brought the crazyness on yourself. Some implants have been known to cause some women to get extremely hormonal (all the time) i.e crazy. Tell her to take out the implant, get a snip.

I say irrespective of the implant, he should get a snip. Irrespective of what girl he ends up with, he should get a snip.

I say irrespective of the implant, he should get a snip. Irrespective of what girl he ends up with, he should get a snip.

adding that chlorine to the gene pool, one snip at a time, also, i agree

Spook the Mirena is pretty win, and only needs changing once every 5 years

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Is door old school enough to know about Mental Patient?